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Breaking Out of the Grief Bubble

By Harriet Hodgson

Grief is a complex process, so complex that mourners may not see themselves clearly. As a friend of mine commented, "You think you're doing well [in grief] but you really aren't." I kept doing my grief work after losing four loved ones, and thought I was doing well. Family members and friends, however, knew I was in a grief bubble, a person totally absorbed in grief.

Now I am able to see how isolated I was and how others saw me. I am also able to see that I have broken out of the grief bubble -- poked a giant hole to let fresh air, new experiences, and new ideas into my life. What do I mean when I say I have broken out of the grief bubble?

Increased physical activity was one of the first signs. Certainly, I was not physically active when I sat on the couch week after week and stared into space. Today, I am racing around for my twin grandchildren and making a conscious effort to walk for health. Walking makes me feel better physically and mentally.

Friends stuck with me during the grief process and now I am reaching out to them. I have invited 13 friends to a holiday luncheon next week. To seat everyone I have to put a card table at the end of the dining table. Though we will be scrunched together my friends will not mind. We will share feelings, tell stories and, if my past luncheons are any indication, laugh a lot.

Breaking out of the grief bubble has made me more aware of national and local news. I followed the presidential election closely, for example, and learned that the local food shelves were running low on supplies.So I delivered groceries and a check to the food bank. Though I am aware of the news, I still watch only one newscast a day for emotional self-defense.

The return of humor was another thing I noticed. My sense of humor is back big time. I trade one-liners with family members, store clerks, and even strangers. Humor has always been part of my personality and I missed it during my grief journey. I think the ablity to laugh as a sign of recovery.

Breaking out of the grief bubble takes time. At first, I poked a few trial holes to see the "lay of the land." Then I poked a larger hole and stuck my head out to see what might happen. Finally, I poked a huge hole and said, "Enough grief! Enough tears! I want to join life again." In order to do this, I had to reorganize my life and plan a future without my loved ones.

I am living that life now. Some aspects of my new life are the same as the old, such as my writing career. Other aspects, like raising my 16-year-old twin grandchildren, are new. Life is exciting again. My life no longer belongs to grief, it belongs to me.

Copyrigh 2008 by Harriet Hodgson

http://www.harriethodgson.com

Harriet Hodgson has been an independent journalist for 30 years. She is a member of the Association of Health Care Journlaists and the Association for Death Education and Counseling. Her 24th book, "Smiling Through Your Tears: Anticipating Grief," written with Lois Krahn, MD, is available from http://www.amazon.com

Centering Corporation in Omaha, Nebraska -- North America's oldest and largest grief resource center-- has published her 26th book, "Writing to Recover: The Journey from Loss and Grief to a New Life."

The company has also published two companion resources, the "Writing to Recover Journal," which contains 100 writing affirmations, and the "Writing to Recover Calendar," which contains life affirmations.

Please visit Harriet's website and learn more about this busy author and grandmother.

   

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