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Dealing With Death And Dying
By Lesley Williams
Dealing with Death and Dying The basis for my
writing:For many years I worked with the terminally ill
and their families, my role was I suppose you could say,
paving the way for peace to enter the lives of all
concerned. Some clients would comment that they found
after I left they would have a peace, a deep peace
within that allowed and supported them in their journey.
Others said when I visited and put my hands upon the
place of their illness the pain would vanish; one dear
friend also remarked that he did not need Morphine for
18 hours after my visit.
To me I felt humbled that I could bring such peace to
someone in such pain, and just to put your mind to rest,
I did not charge for this service. Some people would
call me a healer, others a spiritual helper, others well
I must admit over the years I was called everything from
a witch to a blessing. But all my clients were thankful
and helped by my work. Working as a healer has a great
deal of responsibility attached, the point of working
with someone is working unconditionally in order to
assist the clients greater good. The difficult thing for
some people to understand is that living is not always
the point of the journey, some people come into my life
seeking help more to come to peace with what has been
their lives, to settle old regrets and to heal the
relationships between themselves and their loved ones.
Many healers have a good intent yet interfere with their
clients by focusing their energy towards a physical
healing of the individual in need. Physical healing is
only one small part of the big picture. Energy sent must
always be in the way that the person in need can
transmute that love energy and use it whatever way they
require, regardless to weather it is used on a physical,
mental, emotional, spiritual plane, ultimately their
soul their spirit knows what is needed to clear as much
karma as possible before the transition.
I have a strong belief in the afterlife; I suppose that
comes from having the personal experience of a near
death at the age of 26 years. I also experience every
day people who have passed over, people who contact
their loved ones through me; life is more than the
energy locked to this physical body, it is far more and
far more enduring and far more than even I can put into
words. It is a wonderful thing to see people who were at
war with life, completely let go of their hatreds,
prejudices and regrets before passing over.
It is a wonderful thing to see the fear of death leave,
and the knowing that all is going to be alright moved in
to take its place. How do I accomplish this? Well not by
magic, not by any mythical way, I simply do not have the
emotional chaos in relation to death and dying inside of
me, and due to the fact I am calm and peaceful, this
allows the clients energy to entrain to mine.
(Entrainment ~ is when you hold a baby and its heart
beat becomes the same pattern as yours, its when two
people breathe in rhythm, think aligned, feel the same.
Like when women live in the same household they both
will menstruate at the same time of the month ~ these
are all examples of entrainment.) I have cleared much of
my own stuff ~ so to speak, and due to that and the
skills I have I am able to see clearly what needs to be
addressed and then support the client to do this without
any pain or suffering.
My love of people, and compassion is the vehicle that
the energy flows through, my unconditional love, no
judgement, no evaluation of a life or a personality,
just being able to allow Gods energy to pass through me
to that person in need. People don't need to believe in
anything for healing to help ~ its not necessarily about
belief, it's not necessarily about anything, it just
works. I believe we all can do this, the problem is that
often when someone is dying, those around that person
are too caught up in the emotions of their own grief and
loss, to be able to help and be a rock for the person in
need to grab hold of. You may think from what I have
said that I may never have lost anyone close to me, but
that is not true, at the age of 27, I nursed my Father
through cancer until 3 days before his death, and at 46
I nursed my mothering between that I worked with my
dearest friend to help bring her baby boy into the world
and then became her constant source of strength in the
weeks that followed until she died, JJ was 4 months old
at the time. Being able to be there for someone only
requires one thing that you care enough to put your own
feelings aside to be there for them. That is all that
matters, keeping them feeling they are not alone,
keeping them focused on feeling safe, reassuring them
you are there, and listening to them when they want to
talk.
We all want our loved ones to stay around, to be with
us, yet I know they never really go anywhere, they just
change form. Death is like entering a doorway to another
room, where the energy just vibrates at a different
frequency to the physical world. That is all, its just a
journey, one which takes us to a space where we can see
the truth, about all things, a place where we can be
with those who have passed before us, and those who wait
for us when it is our time. The only thing that prevents
the souls of people passing on to the light, to where
the frequency is full of love and friends and peace, is
fear ~ those who have a heavy conscience one full of
fear and regret sometimes become what is called
earthbound souls, or more commonly known as Ghosts,
these spirits often don't know they have passed over and
exist by depleting or sucking energy from living people.
They stay trapped, lost and searching until someone
comes along who can help open that door for them to pass
over to the lighter energy plane.
I will write more on this subject soon, so stay tuned.
Much Love and blessings TRUITY Lesley Williams. |
